If you are someone who regularly sends text messages to people, you know there’s nothing like “just texting”, especially in relationships. There’s a lot of power play and ego display going on behind the facade of texting. So here are a few tips for you to win this battle.

1. Never be the last one to send a message. No matter what, he should be the last to send you a message on any day. If you find it difficult, you’ll just have to cut off a texting interaction with a “Goodnight”. When he replies in kind, don’t text back.

2. Say “Cool”. Whenever he seems very excited about something, say “Cool”. He wants to take you to a rock concert? Just say “Cool!” This will keep him on his toes and he will keep wondering why you are not as excited about the date as he is.

3. If he doesn’t text you very often, show him that you don’t care when he does text you. To achieve this, say something like “Good to hear from you” or “Sorry I couldn’t keep in touch…been so busy” etc. Make him feel that you di not mind his absence at all.

“4. Can’t talk right now, will call later”. Just send this message when he texts you and don’t call him. Trust us, he will definitely call you back within 24 hours.

5. Pretend to not recognize him. Make an excuse of having changed the phone and not recognizing his number. This will throw him off balance and make you the powerful one immediately.

Use these tricks and you shall never be the one who waits for days to get a text reply to a string of big messages!

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Lavanya Mehra


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