The success of the movie ‘Murder’ inspired other filmmakers to produce more movies in the same genre in recent times. Such movies glorified extra marital affairs and the excitement and thrill that goes with it. Taking it a step further, Karan Johar’s Kabhi Alvida Na Kehna in fact espoused walking out of a marriage and advocated getting into an extra-marital affair. Thankfully the audiences rejected the film outright.

While we are not saying that extra-marital relationships are a figment of their imagination, filmmakers need to draw a line. After all audiences look up to popular stars, and the roles enacted by these stars are emulated by their fans. So if you don’t want to be in the shoes of the characters of ‘Kabhi Alvida Na Kehna’ please do read further. We, at Memsaab, have compiled a few things you need to do so that you and your spouse can live with each other ‘happily ever after’.

Commit To Remain Committed

This means that you promise to yourself and your partner that no matter what happens, you will always be by his side. You put your spouse over and above everything else – be it work, friends, parties or other loved ones.

Don’t Become Boring

If he takes you out for dinner, don’t start complaining about the bai or bitching about your in-laws. Time together should be used for strengthening the bond you share. Nobody likes a cola without the fizz. Same is the story with relationships and partners. Bring back the romance!

Fulfill Your Spouse’s Emotional Needs

All of us have our own specific emotional wants and needs. Whatever our individual emotional needs may be, the feeling of being cherished and wanted cannot be replaced by any other feeling. When our loved one showers us with unending love, that feeling of contentment is just so divine. Take out time to make your spouse feel special. Do things that they love. Just Be with your spouse – It will do wonders for your relationship.

Appearances Matter

In India, girls go to such lengths to maintain their slim figures. They diet and they exercise. But as soon as a girl gets married, everyone expects her to gain weight and look matronly! Don’t let that happen to you. Coz if you do, you may no longer be attractive enough to hold ‘his’ interest or his eyes for long. The same thing holds true for men too. Both the partners should take care of their appearance.

Make The Relationship Feel Secure

A very common reason for the breaking up of marriages is the loss of trust. This stems from loss of security. So ensure that your partner feels secure in the relationship. Do everything possible to deepen the trust that your spouse has in you. Love and Trust beget one another.

Don’t Miss Out On The Fun Stuff

Just because you are married doesn’t mean that you have to stop having fun. If the marriage is no longer fun for either of you, cheating is a likely consequence. We all like to have excitement, fun, thrills and the works. If the marriage provides these things, straying is neither required nor likely.

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