Almost all married couples hit this spot at some time in their married lives, the period of "no sex". It's not exactly "no sex" but more like "very little sex". For some couples, this period lasts for years, eternity for some, and a few smart ones take steps to fix it and get back on track.
If you think you and your spouse have lost that spark of chemistry, then you need to figure out why.
What's Ruining Your Sex Life?
- TV: That television set in your bedroom is the top enemy of sex. More often than not, one of you will fall asleep while watching television. Throw it out of the bedroom!
- Late Dinner: If you've piled on a heavy dinner at 11 PM, there's very little chance of you getting any action. Who can engage in physical activity with a heavily stuffed tummy that demands to just lie around?
- Family: You love your family but they are often a reason why you're not having sex. There's nothing wrong in making arrangements for the kids in such a way that you and your spouse can enjoy intimacy a couple of times every week.
- Shyness: If you are both gonna be so shy, who will initiate sex? If you need it, you gotta ask for it babe!