Small Mistakes That May Hurt You!

By First Posted: Nov 27, 2007 Tue 11:30 AM Updated: Dec 7, 2007 Fri 12:26 AM

Relationship. The world itself sounds so complicated. Imagine how entangled it can make our own lives! That is why it has the potential to give us both pain and joy at the same time!

No matter how much you wish or try problems are bound to occur. This is the truth of life! Yet you will continue to strive for a problem free relationship, working for everyones happiness, always!

There are some common mistakes that we tend to make, unknowingly, that give rise to complications. A small effort to avoid such mistakes can go a long way in helping you build a beautiful relationship with the love of your life!

We move too fast
In a quest to be loved, we rush into a relationship with people that we arent really in love with! The jet age makes us feel lonely and gasping for love! But hurry doesnt solve any problem, rather worsens things for us leaving us even lonelier that before!

So, take your time before settling down with a hurried decision. Better still, dont decide just listen to your heart. Give your heart sometime to screen and understand the person your mind thinks is perfect for the moment!

We dont research
This means getting to know the person well before entering into a relationship with him! And while, researching, keep aside the attraction factor. You will need a lot more than simple attraction to carry on with a smooth and beautiful relationship.

We dont look back
It seems difficult in todays fast paced world, but it can save you from committing many more blunders! Halt and look back think about your past relationships and your experiences. What had gone wrong? Are you committing the same mistake again?

We believe quickly
Dont take things at face value! You first need to believe in yourself, only then can you trust someone else completely. This does not, by any means, mean that every man is a liar. But every relationship is delicate, and can really hurt you deeply if you listen to others more than your inner voices! If the guy tells you something, observe his behaviour to see if he really means it!

We want to live in a dreamland
The reality is neither a dream nor a nightmare. It is a blend of both, wherein you need to work hard to realise your dreams. If you imagine a perfect marriage, you will need to work towards making your marriage a perfect one!

You do not have to stop dreaming rather, stop expecting the real world to come your way as your fantasyland. Everyone has to face the realities of life and fight back! Also, remember, when you are in a relationship, it is not about your individual dream, but a dream that both of you can foresee being fulfilled. Individual expectations may be shattered, but together you can make your life as beautiful as your fantasyland!

A beautiful relationship is a precious treasure that you possess... take good care of it and watch it fill your life with the joys of life!

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