For men there is a lot of difference between who they want as their girlfriends, and how they perceive their wives to be! Of course there also exists a difference between what we have as boyfriends and later as husbands but that is not out of choice. Rather, because we keep yearning for a matured man and get him pretty late! And in the meanwhile enjoy the journey with a boyfriend!
Boyfriends are guys, who take care of themselves first, then his buddies, then his family, then their co-workers and finally you if he doesnt have a dog. Yep, thats true! Youre never quite sure what he may do the next, but youre hoping youre involved. Youve never seen a flower in months and chocolates is confined to the pages of history of your relationship. But you still love him. Because he is funny to the core, knows how to bring a smile on your sad face and brings an exciting element of surprise whenever he appears! Thats what the boyfriend is all about.
Men are more mature. They understand what goes around and what doesnt. They also understand what is right and what is wrong. Cheating... wrong, faithful...right! They are more likely to be the "boring" ones. That is also a reason why we first experiment with boyfriends trying to find husband material in them with rare successes.
Now its a different thing all together if the lady has succeeded in molding her cute, careless boyfriend into a handsome, honest husband! Thats also why we find him changing after marriage. As he becomes more sophisticated, mature and responsible boring, forgetful and taking you for granted come as free packages! You might have had your first meeting at a beach, but now he would rather say at home and watch the world cup on a holiday!
Your Man could be your husband or your boyfriend so before you go man hunting, just be clear who you are looking for!