There are few people (between the ages 16 and 24) who can refuse the charms of online relationships. Obviously we are talking about the educated and computer savvy people here. But few people actually make a success out of their online exploits. The reason: Most men are involved in online relationships just for fun and have no intention of getting serious. On the other hand, most young Indian girls want to get married to the first guy they get involved with, online or in the real world.

But the online world is full of creeps, lunatics, perverts and big time losers. These are the people who can make your life a living hell if you trust them and fall into their traps. But how can you (an unsuspecting simple person) differentiate between losers and nice guys? How can you spot a pervert online? Don’t worry, Memsaab.com is here to help you as always. Read on to find out how to spot online perverts and losers.

• He is an online (and offline too) loser if he says “I love you” in the very first 2 or 3 emails.

• Steer clear of losers who are romantically intimidating. These are people who tell you that they cannot live without you in the first 2-3 emails/online meetings. Mind you, surely you are not the only person they cannot live without.

• Does he send nude photographs to you within days of knowing you? This smells of trouble.

• An online pervert will ask you to send nude photographs of yourself even before you get involved romantically.

• Online perverts often will send you pictures of genitals, male or female. They will also send you dirty jokes and dirty pictures within a day or two of meeting/knowing you.

• Anyone who wants to know the details of your sexual relationships even before knowing your name is clearly a lot of trouble. So it would be wise to stay away from such jerks.

• People who brag about their sexual conquests, or tell how they have tricked/fooled others, cannot be nice. These people might be bragging about you tomorrow, if you trust them enough to become friends with them.

• Online perverts can be identified from a simple observation. If he repeatedly pressurizes you to turn on your webcam in the initial online meets, be wary. If he asks you to appear naked before your webcam the very first or second time you are chatting, you have just met a pervert.

• If you catch him lying repeatedly, you are stuck with an online loser. Lying is OK as far as trying to conceal real identity is concerned. Everyone has a right to ensure his security. But other than that, nothing should be lied about.

If you think you are getting involved with an online pervert, NOW is the time to get out of this relationship. If you decide to sever the relationship, stop all communication with him. Barr the pervert from all you email and chatting accounts. Keeping communication channels open often makes it difficult to sever the relationship. For tips on how to get out of an online relationship, just keep logging into your very own www.memsaab.com