Richa is a marriage counselor and her small office is witnessing a big boom in business. Richa claims that the number of clients she gets has increased significantly over the last decade. She has helped many couples in seeking solutions to relationship issues without opting for a divorce.

Marriage is a very dynamic relationship. It changes every now and then as the responsibilities and priorities of concerned parties change. For some lucky couples marriage grows better with each day. But for others a few years down the marriage, dullness sets in. And ultimately the couple feels so distant and out of sync that they start considering a divorce. That is where Richa comes into the picture.

Modern day stresses and high expectations take their toll on relationships and marriages are more affected than any other relationship. Why does a Romeo start lusting after babes at work while Juliet is fantasizing about John Abraham? Romeo and Juliet are meant to be together till death does them apart, so why do they lose that magical romance?

Drifting Apart: Bole to dheere dheere juda ho jana. Sanya and Rajeev had the perfect marriage till two years back. Their daughter was born two years back and Sanya was more involved with her new born daughter now. Meanwhile, Rajeev got a promotion and was heading the Western Zone sales team for his company. This meant a lot of touring and traveling for him. And these two factors doomed the perfect marriage that Sanya and Rajeev had. The couple did not feel close to each other anymore! Ab pati consistently absent rahega to wholl feel close? Thankfully, they realized the problem while it could still be solved and sought counseling. It is important to realize that the relationship needs to be nurtured continuously. A marriage cannot be taken for granted.

Physical Distancing: Living away from each other for long periods of time also gives the relationship ample time to cool off. The couple loses the closeness and warmth that a marriage is based on. When the husband and wife meet after months of separation, they feel like strangers. As far as possible, such a situation should be avoided. Bole to do do maheeney mayke nahi jaana memsaab log! And apne saab ko bhi pallu se bandh ke rakhne ka! Zyada ghoomne nahi dena usko akele akele.

If you find either of these situations ruining the beauty and love of your marriage, storm into corrective action ASAP. If these are not the reasons your sweet relationship is turning sour, fikar not! We will be bringing you another article on the same topic, with more reasons you could be drifting apart. And well also provide information on how to deal with the situation. So watch out for our next article in this series..

Till then, HAPPY BONDING!!!