If a woman steals your husband, the best revenge is to let her keep him, for she deserves to be with the scumbag that your cheating husband is. But if it is possible to seal your marriage in such a way that cheating is the last thing on his mind, why not?
In our previous article in the series, we discussed top 5 reasons why men cheat. But the list doesn’t end there. There are other reasons behind an extra-marital affair, and you need to know them. That’s coz knowing is the only way you can avoid those circumstances which lead men to stray. Here are more reasons why men cheat, and tips on how to make your marriage cheat-proof.
• You Don’t Take Care Of Yourself Anymore: Most Indian women consider it absolutely natural and OK to gain weight after marriage and childbirth. But it is not a natural progression. As you settle down in happy domesticity, your man starts losing interest in you. The simple reason is that you don’t look as good as you used to. No matter how bad looking ‘he’ may be. He has to have a woman who takes care of herself.
• For Revenge: If you ever cheated on your husband, there is a good chance that he will do the same to you. He may have been forgiving when he found out, but most men like to avenge such wrongs. In fact, even if he suspects you to be having an affair (without any proof or any real basis to it), he may still salvage his hurt ego by having an affair himself.
• You Are Too Dumb To Find Out: If your man has this view about you, he may exploit it to his full advantage. Such men think “what she doesn’t know won’t hurt her” and they take undue advantage of your trust.
• Boredom: Sheer boredom can be another reason for extra-marital affairs. He may love you and all, yet he may have an affair just for the excitement, newness and thrill of it.
• You Have Allowed It In The Past: If your man has been cheating on you and you have not done anything to stop it, you have given him a green signal to keep continuing. If he has cheated on you, he must have some paying to do! If you forgive him without making him feel remorseful, it will be you who will do the paying in future. So don’t let him off too easily.
What this means is that, you need to make some efforts to keep your man hooked to you lifelong. Not only should you take good care of your appearance, you should also try to keep the spark alive. Being proactive and maintaining the health of your marriage is very important.
Men feel that they are very clever and can get away with cheating without being caught. Don’t let this happen to you. Make sure that you keep tabs on him if you have the slightest reason to doubt him. Be informed about technology and how it can help you. If he does cheat on you, you have to take a call on whether or not to forgive him. If you do decide to give him another chance, make sure that he knows it to be his last chance.
Betsy Y. Feliciano - Extra Martial Affair
Affairs are just wrong and should not be tolorated under any circumstances.
Dan’s paramour, Betsy Y. Feliciano flew to Colorado in February 2006 (arriving February 2nd, departing February 6th – Room 200) for the sole purpose of consummating their illicit sexual relationship at the Holiday Inn in Wheat Ridge, CO. Before starting this illicit relationship, Betsy knew Dan was married. Prior to meeting Betsy in Colorado, Dan was given a SBC Calling Card 1-888-330-2323 for his use..
He then returned to Illinois, staying at the Best Western Hotel in Naperville where they continued their sexual tryst from February 23rd to March 4th.
Again, Dan returned to Illinois on March 14th where they so called met for coffee only. (Fat chance)
About March 24th 2006 a smug and arrogant Betsy called stating “I wouldn’t have your husband if you were doing what it takes to keep your man”. With that, I told her I’m laughing at both of you because I know what you are getting, but Dan does not have a clue as to what he is getting with you other than sex.”
May 2006 they rented a house in Naperville where she hoped to move her adult daughter in, who also worked at Good Samaritan Hospital. Betsy was only interested in getting a man who could put her in a house and take care of her financially. She got the rented house, got a sex partner, but nothing else.
Betsy’s plan did not workout as she had anticipated. After all of the lies and sneaking around, their love for each other went soured because Betsy’s true colors started showing and Dan would not take her for weekend getaways, he would not spend money on her. He kept telling her that he wanted his good life back. (This did not sit well with Betsy)
The slut/paramour had the nerve to go to the Lisle Police stating she had been threatened or felt threatened. (She had been a police in Florida, therefore had her fellow person in blue call making threats on her behalf). In September 2006 Betsy called, no less than 14 times, leaving numerous messages sounding pathetic because all of a sudden, she could not deal with Dan’s special needs (depression and low self-esteem etc.), she had been cooking, cleaning, doing everything for him and that she was going to have a baby. etc. (The voice mail messages will be provided in the near future). Interestingly, one of the messages this pitiful “B” left on September 13th originated from a fax machine at the home of a person named Don Boulter of Westmont. If he is in-fact involved with this t..mp I truly feel sorry for him. Sometime during all of the “wh re’s” drama, she told Dan she had found someone else, perhaps that someone else was Don.
To make a long story short, in October 2006 Dan returned to Santa Fe and Betsy had already moved on to her next victim.
The fat troll’s line to Dan was that she had not had sex in 15 yrs and he was perfect, she would not change one thing about him. (She stroked his ego real good.)
The wh re, Betsy is a person who lacks character and morals. Bottom line, the troll has been slithering around all of her life and this is all she knows.
As for Dan, he was extremely stupid. As a direct result of his immoral and illicit relationship with Betsy, his paramour and “b..ch”, he lost his good reputation, good name, credibility, self-respect and much more which will be difficult to reestablish.
To hear audio from Betsy go to Paramourtoo.com
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