There are innumerable jokes that men crack on the mysteriousness of women. They claim that it is impossible to understand a woman and what she wants. But how easy to read are our men? Are you sure you understand him completely, always? Or does the dysfunctional disparity between his words and his actions leave you with doubts?
Confusion Confusion
We see them ogling at hot babes on and off screen. Does that mean that they will marry one? We see a lot of respect in their eyes for the competitive female colleagues/boss at work. So will they want to spend their life with someone like that? They cannot stop raving about how mom is the best at everything. Would it be right to assume they wish to hook up with a girl whos like their mom?
Look darlings, what men want, what they think they want, and what they say they want are all very different things. Gone are the days when men wanted a hoor-pari to play with, and a seedhi saadi bhartiya nari to marry. Today men want their partners to be all rounders. They might claim to be metrosexuals, but Indian men have a long way to go.
At heart, most Indian men still want to marry a girl who is docile, honest, faithful and loving towards everyone. She should love and serve the husbands family. But she should also bring home a fat pay packet every month. She should slog her ass off at work and at home.so that she can stay in shape. Yes, she must stay in shape.
Do Men Still Want To Be Pati Parmeshwars?
Naaaaaa! Our boys have really come a long way from this pati parmeshwar thing. They dont want to be treated as Gods. But at the same time, they do want to be considered the superior of the two sexes. Rashmi says that her husband does not let her spend her income at all. And he never fails to tell her that hes the one bearing the entire burden. The fact that Rashmis income is what their savings and investments are based on, is conveniently forgotten!!!
To sum up, our men today need a heady mix of the modern woman and their moms. They need the gentle loving care that they saw mom lavishing on everyone. And they also need a power packed woman who can shoulder the financial responsibilities. They want a girl who they can show off amongst friends and colleagues. Yet, she should be decent enough to stick by their side.
