There was a time when the husbands were the bread earners of the family, and wives were the homemakers. But now times have changed. Now you realize that both of you need a lot more than bread to eat and home to live. So now both of you earn bread (with butter, cheese, and a lot of other toppings) and both of you try and handle home (as and when you find time). And finally when you are all done with your monetary and non monetary chores, you have only enough energy left to climb onto the bed and shut your eyes to sleep!

There are times when we are so caught up with our responsibilities and daily chores that we are just not able to find time for the person we have pledged to spend our entire life with!

But dont you worry! Memsaabs Secret Treasure is back again with another short and sweet guidebook all for you

o First and foremost, spare your weekends.
I know there are scores of relatives waiting for your dawat ka bulawa, I know there are so many friends whom you have not met for ages, but then there is someone at home who youve not met for many years too (oh! Remember the time when even hours without him seemed like years?)
So spare your weekends for your jeevansathi and go catch a nice movie or go out for a romantic dinner.

o Romantic house chores
When most of your evening passes by doing those regular, boring, unproductive house chores, start doing it together. Working together can be fun. Share your days stories during that time (I am sure there are tons of funny incidents about your office that will make him laugh, and surely he too can amaze you by imitating his bosss weird actions!)

o Shop for each other
When you are so independent, it is easy to go your own way in whatever you do. But then you tend to become quite aloof. Try doing things for each other and youll actually find a great way to spend time with each other! Go out shopping for your hubby with him and at other times he can accompany you for yours. If you are thinking this is going to be boring for either of you, rethink. There is a lot more to shopping than scanning shops after shops!

o Couple up whenever you can
In most of the official parties, couples are quite welcome. Accompany him in his parties or insist that he comes along in yours. You will always be able to steal time from the official socialization to spend some beautiful moments with him!

o Share your friends
A common circle of friends means a lot of common leisure time! These friends can even be your or his colleagues at the workplace.

Remember how both of you used to steal time for each other before marriage? That is all you have to do, "steal time for each other"! It wasnt that difficult then, why should it be now?