relationships

He loves me; He loves me not.

If you’ve been tearing apart roses, petal by petal, just to decide whether or not he loves you, this article is for you. Now you need not take guesses, play number games, or ruin lovely flowers to know his feelings for you. You don’t even need to ask your friends for advice. Memsaab.com brings you tips that will help you find out if he loves you, and you don't need to put in much effort. Here are a few signs that will help you know whether he really loves you or not…

Guys might be the easiest mysteries to solve, but there still remain many things about them that you may not be familiar with. Considering that many of us may be in search of our better halves, and even otherwise, there are certain things about men that might interest you.

Anything For Attention
They can’t put on makeup or show their skin to get the girls’ attention, so they resort to all other means possible! So if the guy goes out of his way to impress you, probably the way itself falls out of line!

Meera married her long-time boyfriend Khushwant last year. Everyone, including Meera and Khush, considers this a match made in heaven. Theirs is your typical “…lived happily ever after” kinda story. The only hitch is that Meera is not really happy. After a couple of months into the marriage, it dawned on Meera that love was not enough to make a marriage work. The differences between her old and new families seemed petty before marriage. But now the same differences often become a bone of contention between Meera and Khush.

Recently my friend Anamika separated from her husband Piyush. Anamika had met Piyush three years ago. After an affair that lasted for over a year, they got married. And my poor friend got the shock of her life when Piyush told her that he wanted a divorce. Barely eighteen months into the marriage, Piyush had fallen in love with another woman!!! The sad part was that Anamika never suspected it. Her husband was having an affair right under her nose, and she didn’t realize it.

If you are reading this article, either you already have doubts about your guy being the ‘right guy’; or you just want to be sure that you are on right track. But either ways, one thing is certain. You see your current relationship as a long-term one and probably are interested in a life long commitment. So it is very important to evaluate if he’s on the right track with you or not. Is he just looking for a short and satisfying relationship, or is he also looking for something long-term?

In the previous article you got an insight into the types of men you should avoid letting into your life! Those were the men you would pity and then, just leave alone.

Here is another list of men to stay away from. These are men to “beware of” because their unique personality type is capable of harming you is some way or another. So it is always better to watch out for these types and don’t fall prey to them in any circumstance!

Men who…

Are babies

“Till Death Do Us Apart”

How true is this saying in the current scenario of ‘marry and divorce to remarry’ relationships? We have all seen Christian weddings on TV. And when the happy couple exchanges wedding vows, they promise to stay with each other till death does them apart. But how many of these couples actually stick with each other?

Here’s an analysis of the reasons relationships fail:

Since lately a lot of men are visiting our website (of course we don’t mind) and putting up questions like “Do you hate men?”, I though of compiling a list of the types of men that we do hate! Actually, we don’t really hate them… we just pity them and stay away from them!

Men with…

A permanent heartbreak
Has he told you how brutally someone broke his heart in the past (really, really past)? Does he keep talking to you about it all the time, gathering sympathies like it were gold coins?

Oouch!

Last week, my best friend came to me with a rather unusual problem, “No, not his ex-girlfriend, nor those disturbing thoughts about work, not even the distance between us! There is something else that has lately crept between me and my boyfriend! It’s his beard!”

So, your boyfriend thinks he is looking “hot”! Ok even you think that Abhishek (Apna Junior Bachchan ) looks really, really hot with the unshaven look, but that doesn’t apply to ALL the boys in the world! And especially not to HIM!!

He is your best pal! He understands you… supports you at all times and is always there to share your joys and sorrows! You tell him all your secrets and his life is like an open book in front of you. You’ve been friends for a long time now… and then, one fine day, you realize that it’s not friendship anymore… that you are falling in love with your best friend!

Are you scared? Do you think that you may lose him if you express your love for him?