Love and romance all sounds very good, but a marriage is much more than that. The thrill and the passion of romance finds no takers after the dullness and monotony of marriage sets in. often people find out after marriage that they are not really in love. The bitter truth that they mistook infatuation/lust for love dawns upon most people a little too late. This is when verbal sparring leads to constant bickering and violent fights. Endless screaming sessions and name calling matches make matters worse.