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Like many other men, Ravi has a peculiar problem. He finds it really difficult to talk to girls. So Aastha, one of his cousins told him that he should begin any “friendly” conversation with a complement. “Fair enough”, thought Ravi and started his complementing debacles. “Wow, What a figure!” “Nice Legs!” “You smell so sexy!”

Yes, Ravi got slapped many a times because of his complements and he wants to know what he is doing wrong. This is for Ravi and other men like him, who need to learn the art of complementing.

When You Barely Know Her

Simply loving a person is not enough. Showing your love for him is equally important.

Just as you expect your guy to make you feel loved and cared for, he too needs to feel loved and cared for. So, make him feel loved and watch your investment of time and effort fetch unbelievable results for you!

Interestingly, while women love hearing the three sweet words again and again from the one they love, men expect it in a different form. It is ok if you don’t say “I love you” to him. Just show him that you love him by your actions:

Cook His Favourite Dish, Again!

Having a crush every now and then is as normal as craving for shopping… but acting “normal” with your crush is normally quite difficult!

You would also not want your actions and behaviour to shout out your feelings to the guy every time!

At the same time what fun is a crush if he doesn’t respond to your feelings?

So, the idea is to make HIM interested in you, without YOU seeming to be falling for him! This could be difficult, because every glance from him will make your heart race towards him. This, you need to hold, and instead get HIS heart racing towards you.

So he doesn’t have time to spend with you this weekend too! He is anyway working till midnight on weekdays! He has already missed your birthday bash; his mom-dad’s anniversary party, 3 Friday-night movies and the much-awaited get-together with old buddies!

In short, your boyfriend is a workaholic!

And if you still love him as much, you already have the first and foremost thing required to deal with a workaholic - TOLERANCE.

When you plan to tie the knot, everyone has a piece of advice on how to be a good wife. When you break the “Good News”, everyone has a cradle full of tips on how to be a good mother!

But has anyone ever bothered to find out what it takes to be a good girlfriend?

Look Good
That’s how your boyfriend wants to see you! Of course he loves you the way you are but what’s the harm in bringing a bright smile on his face, every time you meet him?

Don’t Expect at Once!

No matter how much you fight with your boyfriend, at the end of the day you want to see him happy!

Specially because there are good chances that his depressed voice will shade your own mood! And you don’t want him to keep repeating on your next date!

So, if not for him, for yourself, you need to cheer him up!

Falling in and out of love is a very common thing these days. So much so, that most young adults have already been in and out of a couple of relationships before they are ready to tie the knot. Finding someone to date is easy enough when you are young and raring to go. The college is such a vast ground to meet and choose your boyfriend/girlfriend. But once you are done with college, the number of new people you can meet and date reduces drastically.

It was not your mistake, but you have forgiven him for whatever happened… and now you want him back!