When was the last time ‘he’ took a day off just to ‘be with you’? Can’t remember?

Do you remember the early days in your marriage when you wanted to spend all your waking moments with your partner? Remember those stolen kisses, the hand-in-hand walk, the long romantic silences, the passionate nights, and the lazy Sunday mornings? If all this has set you off on a nostalgic trip to the past, you obviously miss being close with your partner. The good news is that you are not alone. Most couples drift apart over the years as the monotony of daily routine sets in. The second good news is that the situation does not have to be so.

Here are a few tips that will help you spice up your married life instantly. Try some of these NOW and see the results…

• Seductive lingerie is your best friend where spicy romance is concerned. If you think sexy lingerie is only for the new brides, you are so clueless! Go grab a couple of cute, sexy and naughty pieces.

• How communicative are the two of you? Are you close enough to discuss your fantasies and passions? If yes, why don’t you try some harmless role-playing to fulfill those fantasies?

• Surprise is the key to a spicy and romantic relationship. So cook up his fav dishes and dress up for a romantic candle-light dinner at home this Friday. He’ll be bowled over by all the surprise attention. And everybody knows that “the way to a man’s heart…”!

• Every guy wants to be appreciated in a sexy way. So how about flirting with him till he gives in to your naughty demands?

• If you have not had a romantic vacation in a long time, plan one now. Send the kids away to their grandparents’ and book yourself into a nice hotel for the weekend. If you do not have the time off for a detailed vacation, just a weekend in a hotel will suffice to rekindle those fires.

• Play games like strip poker or other naughty stuff.

• Leave romantic notes on the bathroom mirror, computer table, dressing table, dining table, bedroom wall etc, for your spouse to find. Just imagine the look of surprise and pleasure in his face when he finds your love note in his bag/lunch box at work!

• Last but not the least, take care of your appearance. This means that you eat well, exercise and try to stay in shape. Besides this, keep yourself neat and clean, wear nice clothes and generally look good.