Men are scum of the lowest order. And my man is no different. Initially I thought that he was not like other guys, that he was a nice person who valued morals. But as it turns out, he's just a guy!
Last year, I found out about his online excursions. He has some weird fantasies that he lives out on the internet. He poses to be an unmarried guy aged 24-25, and he goes to chat rooms looking for young girls. He has no shame in knowing that he has a wife at home while he does this. After I found out about this, I was so angry and hurt. But his promises of 'never doing it again' made me forget everything and move on.
But recently, I found out that he has been doing it again. Interestingly, I don't feel any pain this time. I just feel completely disgusted. I have no respect for him anymore. Although he once again promises to not do it again, I'm sure that he plans to do it at the very next opportunity that he gets.
Is online cheating OK? Are online romances and flings not cheating? Should I make my peace with this?
I want to leave him. But I don't want my family to be hurt. They have such a high opinion of him. They all think he's the greatest guy on earth and that I'm lucky to have him. It was a love marriage. Now if they find out that I want to leave him, they'll be so heartbroken. I just have my parents now. There's nobody else to turn to. What should I do?
hows ur hubby doing now
hows ur hubby doing now deeks? still cheating? or has better sense taken over his nonsense?
Is My Husband Cheating?
Hi, As you told yourself that all guys are like, then what is the problem? He is ur husband you want to leave him. What if your father or brother were there in his place. What he is doing.... may be he got addicted to it. Help him Try to take him away from this habit. Intially try to be with him for more time than what you r spending now. This kind of activity a man resorts when he is alone and does not get time from wife or girl friend. And do not make it issue, if you keep on fighting on this issue with him , he will further indulge in this activity to get rid of daily nagging by you. I do not know, your parents too might have expected from you to indulge in love with a guy and have love marriage. They might have got hurt, but they love you and accepted your choice. So there is nothing above love...these are small mistakes. you are his support...help him and get him out of this mess.
Best wishes to you and ur naughty hubby
DEEKS!
Dont worry much,hez a gye aftal may be hez out of track..but he will be pissed of all dese in a while.ask him to do wotevr he wants,he will feel guily.stop worring much.care for him instead of wot he does.
maintain silence..n he vil b bck to u..
hez ur man n u shud love him lik his love..
best of luk to u!
DEEKS ! Just chill !
DEEKS ! Just chill ! He's not going anywhere ! My Tarot cards say it ! For further help mail me at rdamitabh@yahoo.co.in ! Take care !
Is this not a challenge?
Hi Deeks
you have every right to be angry and upset. It hurts when it dawns on us that someone whom we trust looks for different trysts and breaks that trust. It is quite healthy for any human being to give vent to ones hurt feelings and go on in life. But dear Deeks hasty decisions are not going to do any help in any relationship. you know, building up relationship, knowing a person gradually is a process and often we do expect people to be perfect, as perfect as those loyal, trustworthy characters picturised in movies or depicted in romantic novels. In reality it is not so, we are all full of folly and do keep falling and rising, in the process hurting and being hurt. you know what, your hubby trying to get a kick through chatting with anonymous persons is not the only criteria to judge whether he loves you or not, there are many more which are much more important to life and relationship. you need to retrospect and need to give a fair chance to him. As rxan has written, this may be a symptom of some deeper need of his. you being creative can bring him back on the track. men are frivolous and i do agree women are much more evolved as human beings than men and bringing in understanding, hand holding and leading men to the level of human commitment is alos a challenge. Why dont you take it up that way and look at this problem in a different angle.
I know for sure you are hurt but throwing away a relationship is not the solution, so dear deeks i wish that you found an alternative way to come out of this and help your hubby to realise what he is doing with some patience.
I think i have written a lot... But i wish you find meaning in your relationship.
Need to consider
Hey even if he is cheating u can make out whether he loves u or not.
if he loves u than he is jst out of track. dont give him time to think abt anyother girl if he s ngaged with one.
Try to b with him all the time, make his moment restricted by loving him. make him feel guilty that while cheating on u he s doing wrong. Care for him he will himself feel guilty. And last but not least plz do experiments in ur bed, boys always love experiments, present ur self in front of him in a new way, in a new look, new thoughts for sex and ask him frequently for movies. Always ask him abt ur clothing, jst try to bring bit of his taste in u r dressing sense. all the best
he will b back, blv me.
R.C
Try to forgive him and move
Try to forgive him and move on if you truly love him. If you think he loves you, maybe he'll change. Love is not easy to give up.
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