Love Needs Maintainance Too!

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Men have a tendency to lose interest quickly. Its not that the love is dying away but you need to work towards keeping the flame alive for ever!Here's how you can do that.

Getting into a relationship with a man may be easy in a female deficient country like India (with a negative sex ratio), but you have to continue working if you wish to keep him in the pool with you! Men have a tendency to lose interest quickly, whether by being more quiet or spending less time with you. Its not that the love is dying away but their flame has a little less fuel and needs regular refilling of propellants!

Here are a few ways to keep your relationship interesting and keep your man coming back for more.

Live your own life. Continue doing things with family and friends without him at times and keep up your hobbies. This leads you to a more fulfilling life, which makes you a more desirable person to be around.

Accept invitations from your man to do something only when he has asked in advance. A man likes a woman who isnt relying on him at all times--needy is unattractive.

Boost his ego occasionally. A great way to do this is to have him teach you something he knows a lot about, whether it is a video game, sport or anything else he is interested in (sometimes, even if you are not interested).

Change your look every now and again. When you are going on a date to someplace nice, get a different hair style, have your nails done and wear something sexy. This will get his attention and make you feel good as well.

Show interest in what he likes, even if you dont like it. This doesnt mean you have to pretend to like all the same things, but choose one or two tolerable things like going to a sporting event or watching a movie he wants to see which you might not be as excited about.

Make something you havent served him before, or an unexpected meal which has three or more courses. Prepare the meal in advance if you have never made it before though. ;)

Discuss issues as they arise instead of seething privately. It is healthy to talk out your problems and makes your relationship stronger in the long run.

Dont let yourself be taken for granted. Dont fall over him and make yourself available every time he asks, but be available to him when he needs you.

And always remember one thing women who are happy with themselves are sexy, more desirable and fun to be around! So dont give away that smile very easilyits your precious piece of jewel!

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