I suspect that my husband is back to his "cheating" ways again. Sometimes when I am not at home, probably he logons and gets to his sick chatting websites. I am not sure of this, and he denies it vehemently. But I do suspect. I know I forgave him and all, but moving on is so difficult. How can I trust him completely now? Why does he have to switch on his laptop at all?
His mom is another nightmare I face every day. She expects me to be a dutiful and obedient "bahu" all the time. Why doesn't she check if her son is a dutiful husband? Much as I try, i still can't fake it anymore. Yes, i hate the two of them. They seem hell bent on making my life miserable. i think I want to quit.
Please tell me if my decision is correct. I am young, 33 yrs to be precise. I have no responsibility of children. I am financially independent. Do I really need to take all this crap? Why can't I just say goodbye? Please tell me if I should or should not consider divorce, according to you...
33 years old, no children or
33 years old, no children or financial dependence and a cheating husband? Here's my recommendation: Dump his sorry ass right now, or loose the possibility forever.
Look, according to the last census as of 08/06/08 at 10:36 GMT (EST+5), there's 6,714,955,332 people of planet Earth. Granted, 52% of them are female (on average), but I think you stand a pretty damn decent chance of doing better. Why fuck up the rest of your life for a guy you don't even care about?
And this is a male saying this: Personally, I can't even imagine what the hell you're so conflicted about; it's _your_ life goddammit. You take care of your shit, let him take care of his. Remember, it doesn't have to be your problem unless you choose make it so.
just divorce and get away
just divorce and get away with lovable
Post new comment