Remember those endless moments of love you spent with your spouse before the kids came along? He took you out every now and then. You made it a point to catch a movie every week. You bought him expensive gifts and he paid you compliments. And then you had a baby.

Babies and kids change everything in a couples life. Children bring endless joy into a couples life. But they also change the priorities in their parents life. Suddenly the focus shifts from your spouse to your baby. And you end up not giving as much attention to your marriage as you need to.

Here are a few ideas to keep the romance alive in your romance even after you have kids

Dont Stop Dating Each Other:

Just coz you got married and have kids, you stop dating each other? Nah nah!!! Take time out for each other, baba. What you can do to surprise and please him is fix a special date with him. Just call him at work on Friday and ask him out. Make your plans well in advance and dont forget to make arrangements for your kids. A babysitter or mom-in-law or your favorite aunty can chip in to look after the kids while you go on that date. Ummm u getting more ideas, gal???

Dress Provocatively:

When the kids are asleep, take out that slinky nightgown buried under those heaps of clothes lying forgotten in your cupboard. Put on some soft music, light an aromatic candle, bring out the wine and grapes and seduce him. Any other provocative ideas are most welcome to be tried.

Go Shopping Together:

Let him choose stuff for you and you do likewise for him. Let the imagination flow wild here. Choose something for him that he you have always wanted to see him in and let him do the same for you.

Take care of yourself:

Keep fit. Meditate. Do Yoga. Keep a balanced mind. Have your share of arguments, but do not sleep over them. And last but not the least, dont let the kids make you a Momster.