How to get even with the other woman...and with him. (Part III)

In the first part of this series, I discussed the need to be sure that your husband was cheating before you did something. In the second part, we talked of ways to get back at your husband. And now, in the third and last part of this series, we gotta talk about getting even with the other woman.

Most women experience an instant hatred for, and urge to kill the other woman. It is quite natural to feel that way. But if you are completely honest and rational, you should think abut it again. Why do you hate her? She does not owe you anything. The extra marital affair may be a morally wrong and dishonest thing to be involved in. But finally, it is your husband who has let you down!

I know, none of this will change the way you feel. So like I said, we will continue to discuss your revenge onthe other woman. Remember, the more you burn inside, more is the satisfaction she will get. The best revenge you could get is to bring your marriage back on track, and throw her out of your and your husband's lives forver. This is your objective now. So get set to work on it.

You may be feeling hurt and disappointed, but you need to reassess your relationship with hubby. Is he happy with you? Do you still love each other? Are you still attractive to each other? Are you bored together? Do you treat each other as special? Answers to these questions may give you an idea of why he had the affair. This is not the time to run away from each other in anger. This is the time when you need each other the most. Yes, even he needs you!

So put away your ego for a while, if you truly love him. Roll up your sleeves coz you have a lot of work ahead. You have to show your husband what he may lose if he loses you. And you have to show him how much you love him. Ask him to work on this with you. Get some couples' therapy if required. But do not give up on the marriage or on each other. If you get him back to being in love with you, you have had the sweetest revenge on the other woman. congratulations!!!