How to get even with the other woman...and with him. (Part II)

He's cheating on you? If you are absolutely positive that he's cheating on you, and if you've got ample proof, here's how you can get even with him...

First of all, there's no need to confront him or raise the issue at all. In fact, don't even let him know that you know. Now make his life hell by doing little things, or by not doing little things!!!

* Start watching a lot of television in the night, and obviously this means that you start waking up later than usual. What you are trying here is to wake up so late that you neither have time for fix him a breakfast nor do you pack his lunchbox. Let him go hungry fr a few mornings, and let him find his lunch elsewhere. Maybe "she" can fix his lunch for him. And hey, if you are working, do remember to fix a quick bite for yourself.

* Stop looking after his clothes. Forget to ge them ironed. Let us see if "she" can iron/launder his shirts for him.

* When he arrives hom in the evening, don't let him find you waiting on the doorstep like a doormat. Instead, make him wait for you. If you are at work, start coming home later than he dos. And if you are a stay-at-home wife, make a habit of going out with friends every evening.

* Jealousy is a great way to torture him. Make him jealous by calling someone in the middle of the night and whisper into the phone. If he asks, tell him you were calling your friend. Similarly, keep sending out SMS's and also keep deleting all the records of your calls and SMS's. Let him think that you are hiding something.

* Stop talking to him. Pretend that you are just not interested in him. Answer politely when he says something to you. But apart from that, let there be no conversation. Let him feel that he is very unimportant and that he does not matter to you at all.

* Surf the internt to find out about divorce proceedings etc. Save a page or two whre he can see them. Let him wonder why you are looking up "divorce proceedings"...

* Stop caring for him or showering loveon him. Behave as if you just dont care.

If yoy do things like these, chances are that he will want to talk to you about your changed behavior. He will feel so bad about all this, that he may even confess about his affair on his own. But this is two edged sword. If he doesn't really want to be with you, he may cite your changed behavior as a reaso. You can of course, fight it outr verbally. But it is better that you go your seperate ways. Such a guyis not worth keeping. The best revenge you could get from "the other woman" is to let her keep him!!!!

But if your behavior really upsets him, then maybe you can save your marriage. Most Indian men cheat only for fun. They don't really intend to break up their marriages. This does not make the cheating any more tolerable. But it sure means that your marriagecan be saved, after you have had your revenge. So if he beaks down and wants to talk, discuss openly what you have found out. Tell him that his behavior is so unacceptable to you, that you have decided to cut him out of your life. Tell him that a loser like him does not deserve to be in your life.

After this, let him beg his way into your life again. Make him feel so sorry for what he has done, that he starts seeing you like a Godess.