How to get even with the other woman...and with him. (Part I)

So you think your husband is seeing someone else and you can do nothing about it? Don't worry, you are not alone. Most women have suspected their husbands of cheating at some point in their lives. Cheating doesn't have to be physical. Your husband may be cheating physically, emotionally or virtually. Most men today start with virtual sex with complete strangers, happily oblivious to the fact that cheating is cheating is cheating: real life or cyber world.

But to be fair to the men, a suspicion is just that till you have proof. So there's no point in mistreating him or being rough and dry just coz of a suspicion. We do have the famous "women's inuition", but still they are "innocent till proved guilty". So if you are being torn between suspicion and love, the first thing you need to do is get proof. You need to be sure that he is really cheatng on you. The good news is that it's not difficult at all.

Many detective agencies can be found in the yellow pages of any city today. As per their own admission, most of the clintsof these agencies are suspicious wives. Go join the club. Have your husband followed, photographed, wotever! They'll even fix some software into your computer that will give ou a report on every word keyed into the machine. So if he's cheating on you at all: physically, emotionally or virtually, you will get to know.

If you find out that he really has been cheating on you, you need to take charge and get even with him and wth the bitch who he is doing it with. Hang in here and I'll bring you super ideas to deal with the situation in my next post. Till then, remain cheerful and don't forgive him so easily. Let him face some music before you even consider forgiveness.