He loves me; He loves me not.

If you’ve been tearing apart roses, petal by petal, just to decide whether or not he loves you, this article is for you. Now you need not take guesses, play number games, or ruin lovely flowers to know his feelings for you. You don’t even need to ask your friends for advice. Memsaab.com brings you tips that will help you find out if he loves you, and you don't need to put in much effort. Here are a few signs that will help you know whether he really loves you or not…

• He wants to spend time with you. He likes being with you and makes no secret of it. He is always trying to spend more and more time with you.

• He treasures your relationship and is never casual about it. This means that if he says he’d call, he does call. And if he doesn’t, he has a good reason and is also apologetic about it.

• He likes to please you and surprise you. So he makes efforts to plan activities that you enjoy and derives pleasure from your pleasure.

• He is ready to give up on his “guys only” time to be with you. This may be considered the most important milestone in any relationship.

• He takes interest in you and notices little things about you. So if you get a new haircut, he knows and is generous with compliments.

• He asks for your advice and opinion on important things. This shows that he sees you as an equal and considers you as someone important and competent enough to give advice.

• He thinks you are really beautiful. If he’s always telling you that he finds you hot, he sees you in too sexual a way. A more romantic and loving attitude would find more favor with the word “beautiful”.

• He wants to introduce you to his family and friends. This shows that he sees your relationship with a long-term perspective. What else does a girl want?

• He cannot see you unhappy, distressed, depressed, upset or in tears. Any of these things is enough to ruin his day and he would do anything to make you happy.

If you find most of these signs in your guy, you can be sure that he really loves and cherishes you. If he’s not forthcoming with his feelings, you can always take the initiative. Go get him, girl!!!