What do you do when you want out, but he doesnt? Do you find it difficult to shake off a bad relationship because

He begins to weep every time you say Honey, we got to talk.

You are too nice, cant do this to him.

He wont take No for an answer! You are scared he will stalk you (thats what he does when you try to break up), or even hire a hit man!!!

So what does a bechari kanya do when saddled with such a guy? Simple, gals! As we discussed in our previous article in this series, the best way out is to make him dump you. This can not only be the sure shot way to get rid of him, it can also be a lot of fun (for you). Wanna know how? Just read on and find tips on how to lose the guy you want to ditch (but cant) by making him ditch you.

1. Be Bossy: If anything, this is what Indian men love to hate in a woman. They hate to be told. So if you are forever telling him what he may and may not do, youve had it with him gal! This tactic is especially useful when you have company. Boss him in front of his friends or family and he just might ditch you right there. If he objects to your maneuvering and bossiness, its time for the waterworks girl. Try to embarrass him in front of people by your weeping and wailing.

2. Be Flirtatious: Obviously not with him. Flirt openly with all males in sight. Never let an opportunity to flirt with his best friend or his brother pass you by. If his sister has a boyfriend, thats another opportunity for you to annoy his guts out with your flirting. If hes too much of a sport and doesnt balk, go bold and start flirting with his dad. That will certainly give him the creeps. But knowing Indian men, just flirting with the best friend will suffice.

3. Exhibit Bad Manners: This can irk him to madness if done with skill. When you go on your next date, be totally inattentive. Make bodily noises like coughing, breathing heavily etc and be very rude. When he talks, start yawning. Keep on interrupting him and show as much disinterest as you possibly can. Meanwhile, ogle at the other men around. And never offer to pick the tab. Let him do all the paying.

4. Pretend To Be A Little Crazy: For once, you can try to ape Jim Carrey. Act clingy and needy at times. Within moments, turn to cute and charming. Cold and distant now, and warm and close within 5 minutes. Start to say something, pause and then stop without saying it. When he wants to know what, just say Oh Nothing. No matter how many times he asks, stick with Oh Nothing. You can now accuse him of being too nosey. Exhibiting a little OCD (Obsessive Compulsive Disorder) can come in handy. For tips watch As Good As It Gets.

5. Start Making Weird Confessions: Tell him if he ever wants any black magic done for good or for evil reasons, he should come to your mom coz shes a pro. How do you think he will react if you tell him that you dont believe in baths and showers? Tell him you like being natural and have decided to stop waxing your arms and legs. An unfailing faith in astrology can also be used devilishly to drive him crazy.

6. The M-Word: Most men cringe at the topic of marriage. So bring it up as many times as you can. A discussion on kids every now and then can also be useful. If he really does propose, then just tell him that you know hes doing it under pressure from you. Refuse the proposal and tell him to not to pity you. Mixed signals often confuse and irritate men. But be careful on this one. It might backfire unless you are seriously evil.

Theres no shortage of ideas. Just remember that being smartly ditched is better than ditching dumbly. For more ideas, watch How To Lose A Guy In 10 Days.