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I suspect that my husband is back to his "cheating" ways again. Sometimes when I am not at home, probably he logons and gets to his sick chatting websites. I am not sure of this, and he denies it vehemently. But I do suspect. I know I forgave him and all, but moving on is so difficult. How can I trust him completely now? Why does he have to switch on his laptop at all?

If you read my previous posts, you'd know that my husband was chatting with young nubile women on the sly. I caught him and after a few denials, he agreed that he had been cheating online. So we discussed a lot and I decided to forgive him. We have been moving on with life. We love each other a lot. I know he values me and will do anything for my happiness. It must have been a momentary weakness that led to his online escapades.

While women say that Emotional IQ or the EQ is very important, do they really mean it? Do women appreciate men who are overtly emotional? Do women like men who cry? Are boys supposed to be afraid of anything?

Probably Not.

Boys Don't Cry

No woman wants a husband/boyfriend who is so sensitive that he cries at anything and everything. Take it from my personal experience, boys who cry are very very very IRRITATING. So if you think a few tears can show you in a positive light, change your game plan buddy.

Protect Me Darling

Women need to make money too, just like men. Here are top 5 reasons why...

1. To feel and to be treated like "an equal" in the marriage.

2. To support the family's finances.

3. To earn your own pocket money, and respect.

4. To be able to spend money on your parents without needing hubby's permission.

5. To be independent, for you never know when you may need to start earning your own bread. Hate to say it, but what if you are somehow left alone to fend for yourself?

Rejection Letter Reject

Ever wonder what to do when those rejection letters start piling up?

Well here's a suggestion:

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[Date Today]
Dear Mr. Rajesh:

A man driving outside of Baltimore, Maryland was southbound on
Interstate 95 in the far right hand lane traveling at 55 mph, minding
his own business. He noticed in his rear view mirror that a Maryland
State Trooper was right behind him. A mile later nothing changed,
except now he's driving at 65 mph, the maximum limit. Several miles
further along, the Trooper's right on his bumper and the man increases
his speed to 75 mph. The Trooper activates his lights and siren and
the man reluctantly pulls onto the shoulder.

There came a big flood, and the water around Bhola's house was rising steadily..

Bhola was standing on the porch, watching water rising all around him, when a man in a boat came along and called to Bhola, "Get in the boat and I'll get you out of here. Bhola replied, "No thanks, God will save me."

Bhola went into the house, and the water was starting to pour in. So, he went up to the second floor.

As he looked out, another man in a boat came along, and he called to Bhola, "Get in the boat and I'll get you out of here."

Again, Bhola replied, "No thanks. God will save me."

Once PVNR (PV Narasimha Rao), Advani and Laloo Prasad Yadav were going in an auto. They met with an accident and all three of them die.

Yama DharmaRaj was waiting for this moment. He asks PVNR and Advani to go to HEAVEN. But, for Laloo, Yama had already decided that he should be sent to HELL. Laloo is not at all happy with this decision.

He asks Yama as to why this discrimination is being made. All three of them served public. Similarly, took bribes, misused public post etc.