Having a crush every now and then is as normal as craving for shopping… but acting “normal” with your crush is normally quite difficult!

You would also not want your actions and behaviour to shout out your feelings to the guy every time!

At the same time what fun is a crush if he doesn’t respond to your feelings?

So, the idea is to make HIM interested in you, without YOU seeming to be falling for him! This could be difficult, because every glance from him will make your heart race towards him. This, you need to hold, and instead get HIS heart racing towards you.

It’s important to hold yourself because men are usually attracted towards women who are hard to get. If he gets you easily, he may not be interested anymore! Now, let’s see how you can do that.

Maintain your calm.
When he comes close to you, the butterflies in your stomach are bound to get active… but don’t let the sensations climb up your face or he’ll know about your crush on him sooner or later! Even if you do not speak to him, your eyes are likely to give away your ‘secret’! Simply, avoid eye contact as far as possible. Also try to avoid physical contact like handshakes because you can’t trust your trembling hands either!

Keep your talks shallow
Yeah “shallow”. Don’t discuss “deep” things like his crush or love life or girlfriend or any other personal stuff. Any such talks, and you are likely to get carried away and show up (on your face or in your talks) what you don’t want to! Talk about general interests (and yes, no getting excited if you share the same interests). Also don’t babble away everything about yourself. The key is to remain a bit of a mystery for him. Guys love solving mysteries!

Talk to others
Chit-chat around with other people too, even if you hate to leave his company. Give him a chance to “notice” you. While you talk to other people, you will avoid giving any hints to him, while he will get a chance to observe you instead.

Hang around a bit with another guy
This will distract you from your crush and will attract him towards you! How? Well, jealousy naam ki bhi koi cheez hoti hai! Flirt with other guys, make him jealous and who knows… your crush may soon be crushing on you!

And finally, even when you feel that he has started liking you, don’t make any moves forward. Let him take the first few steps. It will be a lot more fun for you AND for him if you make yourself hard to get!