Times have changed, and so are the usual ‘in-law problems’, but what renmains constant is the problem of keeping them happy… or rather impressing them. Obviously if you wish to live in harmoney with your hubby, you have to be in the good books of his mom and dad! Specially, if you guys are going to share the same roof!

1. By now you must have guessed that it is imperative to keep him happy to keep them happy! If not, take note… nothing pleases parents more than knowing that their child is being well-loved and cared for. Never squabble with him in front of his parents. If you think hot issues may come up, discuss with him ahead of time, how you plan to deal with his parents on the hot-soup.

2. Put them in your parent’s shoes . Would you have mind if your own parents had said or done the same thing they did? Think about it. It might be hard for you in the beginning, but it’s not impossible. And with time they might become as close to you as any of your own family member.

3. Ask for their advice, regardless of whether or not you plan to take it! Your husband's parents will be glad to feel that they still have some influence on their child's life.

4. Divert interference tactfully. If it bothers you that your mother-in-law always tries to do your dishes after dinner, offer her another task, such as serving coffee or playing with the baby. That will keep her away from what you want her to and she will not feel offended either!

5. Even after trying your best if you and your in-laws are completely incompatible, just handle it as gracefully as possible. Remember they did something wonderful when they created your loving husband. You can at least be grateful to them for this!